All children in foster care have experienced some degree of trauma, loss, abuse or neglect and the way in which trauma impacts a child’s development varies dramatically from child to child.
Adopting a child or teen from foster care is a great way to grow your family while helping youth find the love, stability, and permanency they deserve. The process to adopt from foster care can be daunting, but the overwhelming feedback we have heard from families over the years is that it is worth it!
We're here to provide all the details you need to know about adopting from foster care in Massachusetts. From understanding different types of adoption, to eligibility requirements, to the specific steps in the process, we've got you covered.
Everything you need to start your adoption journey.
The road to adoption as a way to create or add to your family is different for everyone. One of the first decisions is which type of adoption best suits your family. There are three types of adoption: foster care, domestic infant, and intercountry. Regardless of the type of adoption, Massachusetts requires that all families work with a licensed adoption agency.
MARE’s mission supports adoption from foster care. All of the children MARE serves are in the custody of the Massachusetts Department of Children and Families (DCF) and reside in either foster homes or residential facilities.
Adopting from foster care is similar to other types of adoption in that after all of the decision making, paperwork, and preparation are completed, a dream of family is fulfilled. But foster care adoptions are different in a few important ways:
Though it is possible to adopt an infant from foster care, the children who are available for adoption generally range from toddler to 18. Most of the children we serve are ages six and older, are children of color, are a part of a sibling group and many have not yet been legally freed for adoption.
Children enter foster care through no fault of their own, because they have been abused, neglected, or abandoned. That means all children in foster care have experienced some form of trauma.
Parents who adopt from foster care either work directly with DCF or a private agency that has contracted with DCF to provide services.
Adopting from foster care is free! There are no fees to get licensed and adopt from Massachusetts foster care.
Children don't need perfect parents. They need loving individuals who are fully committed to supporting them on their life’s journey, whatever that holds. The most important “requirements” for adults interested in adopting a child, teen or sibling group from foster care are:
Ability to offer a child unconditional commitment, love and support
Flexibility and comfort tolerating the unknown
A good sense of humor
An adult of any age, as long as you are at least 21 years old; there is no upper age limit to adopt from foster care
Single, married, partnered, straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, or queer
Starting your family or have other children in your home
A homeowner or renter
Of almost any income level, as long as there is a stable source of income that can support the family; there is no cost to adopt a child from foster care and financial and medical subsidies may be available
Of any race, ethnicity and religion
An adult with a medical or mental health condition and disability; disabilities or medical conditions are not reasons for automatic disqualification from the process; they will likely be a consideration when deciding what type of child you can best parent
A permanent legal resident
A Background Record Check will be completed on all applicants; applicants with a charge on their CORI can apply for a waiver and if a waiver is granted, you will be eligible to proceed with the licensing process
Everything you need to start your adoption journey.
There are just 9 steps to adopt a child from foster care. MARE is here to help you along the way, and if you would like more information, please do not hesitate to reach out. Let’s get started.
Create a MARE account to discuss with a worker your interest in becoming an adoptive parent and learn about agencies that serve your region of the state. You may want to attend an Adoption Information Meeting where you will learn more about the process of adopting a child from foster care.
Upon your request, a social worker from the agency you have chosen to work with will visit with you. You will receive an application which is to be returned this agency. You will be assigned a social worker who will provide you with guidance and support throughout the process.
Background record checks, including criminal and state child welfare histories are completed. Your home must meet physical standards established by state law and regulations. We seek to ensure that your household is a safe environment for placing a child or sibling group.
Once your application is approved, you will be invited to attend a pre-service training program. The training prepares adults to parent a child from foster care. You will learn about the needs of children who have experienced neglect and abuse. The training covers such topics as communication, building self esteem, child guidance, understanding behaviors, and working with agencies and courts. The training will also give you the information you need to begin and participate in a mutual home study process. You can find a list of upcoming MAPP Trainings here.
This is the time when a social worker will visit you, interview you and your household members and will request personal references. At least two visits will occur in your home. The home study is a mutual assessment process, it allows you to actively engage in deciding whether a particular child or sibling group is right for you. The social worker completes the home study for approval. The home study identifies your family’s strengths, it will also identify the type of child who is the best match with your family.
Once your homestudy has been completed and approved, you become licensed to adopt. You can now register your homestudy with MARE.
Social workers will match the needs of a child or sibling group with your strengths. You will be given all available information about the child so you can make an informed decision about moving forward. You and the child will have pre-placement visits and support prior to placement.
Placement decisions are mutual and are based on the planned transition schedule. You receive support throughout the process. When the child is placed, you will work with the child’s social worker and with your social worker, issues are assessed and services located that will support the child and your family, as may be needed. A child must be legally free and reside with you for at least six months before legalization by the court can occur. Based on the child’s needs and adjustment, it may take longer.
Your adoption is officially legalized by the court. Support services continue to be available to you and your family after the adoption is legalized. Post adoption services can be sought when a child is approaching developmental milestones or when a crisis occurs in the family. Services are available on a periodic or ongoing basis.